The Problem with Modern Porn
It is everywhere and soulless, yet we can’t get enough of it.
There’s so much of it that every porn site today is a repository for the explicit. Pornhub, Ehentai, Rule34—database after database of sexual content.
The sheer amount makes it difficult to consume. And so each generation shortens it further, making it quicker to see and easier to swallow.
From porn films down to porn scenes down to porn gifs, diluting and distilling it like erotic chemists.
Porn is now gifs of anonymous cocks being stuffed into Tracer’s and Widowmaker’s pussies in unending, 10-second loops.
Straight-to-the-point porn that starts and ends with the dick-in-the-pussy. Upvoted on Reddit, shared on 4chan, retweeted on Twitter, these fuck loops dominate porn today.
But I ask: Do they satisfy you?
It’s mesmerizing content, bouncing forever up and down. Yet there’s something about starting at the end—beginning at the sex—that feels unnatural and twisted, like eating processed foods sweetened with too much sugar.
After a few mouthfuls, you begin to almost feel sick. This is the food that we are being served, but are they the meals that we want to eat?
Dumber and Smarter
You will often hear people who bemoan internet culture say this:
“People’s attention spans are shrinking; the internet has made society dumber.”
I say that it is the opposite: Internet media thinks that you are dumber and smarter than you humanly are.
Dumber in that all you want is the shallow quick-fix; smarter in that you can process in 5 seconds what once brought you pleasure over 30 minutes. It is the way that the content treats you and the way we mindlessly imitate it that is dumb.
Audiences are actually very smart people. The creativity, desire, and problem-solving of the human mind has not changed over thousands of years.
So why has the internet suddenly regressed it in the span of thirty? Answer: It hasn’t.
There is a movement growing that values quality over quantity. Though the erotic market is flooded, our thirsts are not being quenched.
Want!
Want is the soul of desire and it is missing today from porn.
Back when I fapped my dick raw to the Internet, I liked to watch BangBus. And I really liked it when the busdrivers would drive up to the girls and talk to them to coax them onboard.
“That redhead’s got a hot Tennessee drawl,” I’d say to myself, “I hope the good ol’ boys fuck that country bumpkin in her ass!”
The videos got to the sex—always, invariably—but it was so much more satisfying for the journey to get there.
Sex without effort is like climax without a build-up; it’s cumming from a flaccid penis. It runs counter to the human experience of desire and sex.
Real Life Naturals
I once had a Tinder hookup with a school teacher that speaks to all this. She was phishing for sex and I arrived at her doorstep, thinking myself ready to go.
She opened the door, kissed me hello, and took me to her bedroom. We took off our clothes—she was small and fit—but I couldn’t get hard. Out of my blood I was frozen.
The whole drive there I had convinced myself that all I wanted was sex. Yet there in the moment, I could not command my penis to be in someone the same minute that I had met them.
We paused—she was as kind as she was beautiful—and she laid naked on her stomach with an open book. She started to read aloud as I looked at her curves, put my hands on her skin, and the wick caught flame: I fucked her silly all about her house.
What had changed? Within myself I drew out true desire; our interaction went from unnatural to natural. Everything started to feel human again.
Erotica for Human Beings
Men will often poke fun at romance novels. They will say that those books are smut covered in a veneer of romance for women, and that men just need the sex.
Such thinking suggests that sex is separate from the passion that drives it up. Yet sex and desire are interconnected; desire springs in us to be acted upon through sex.
Without that desire we would lack the will that compels us to fuck. We would be without agency, and without agency we would cease to be human.
Thus the roboticness of porn loops and the soullessness of adult AI Art.
And so there is space (and a great need!) to instill in readers desire through art. And, therefore, a way to make erotica more satisfying for men.
NTR
In the last decade the NTR & Cuckold genres have exploded in popularity for the following reasons:
- Worldwide men are having less sex. NTR explores this global male frustration and emasculation.
- NTR revels in the joy of the conquerer—a fantasy that few men get to live.
- NTR is the genre whose conceit is the cultivation of desire: The desire from the cuck to reclaim his woman, the desire from multiple men overwhelming the woman, and the desire of the bull to take and to steal.
- Oneshota NTR (boy with woman) has grown particularly as a fetish because men today are locked out of sexual intimacy and are not growing emotionally, leaving adult men to feel like children.
- NTR is unique in porn for its character development: It’s porn that tells a story. And story—events that give meaning to actions—is what’s missing from Tracer’s overstuffed pussy.
Then there is this inescapable truth: Regardless of the fetish that you watch, there is but one constant to all erotic content on the Internet—you are watching other people have sex.
Computer screens all across the world are imprinting new cuckolds: Every man is deriving pleasure from seeing another man do what he does not.
A New Paradigm
Modern porn assumes that our desire lies in the fictional character who we long to fuck and not in our own want to fuck them. It thrusts us into the explicit and then tells us to get off to it.
It’s all backwards, like walking out of a woman’s bedroom to find the look she gave you that brought you there. It feels that way because sexuality is nurtured, not exploited.
I am nothing, you see, compared to the erotic charge within your mind. In there is the creative kindling to a great pyre of desire.
My art, therefore, is made to suggest erotic ideas, to imply sensuality. To trigger the powerful mechanisms of imagination in your mind’s fantasy.
I am a firestarter for you to burn with desire.
For such a dumb reason to coming to this page, I left feeling truth had been spoken upon me and I have been invigorated for desire of something more meaningful. I think your words are truth that many cannot see today. We blind ourselves in a mythology of our own making. Some worship these people of porn as idols.
I think it’s time we took a step back and pursued our own sexual gratification through intimacy and desire for the ones we truly love rather than endlessly ingesting the infinite slew of porn we see today. Then, perhaps, we can truly improve upon ourselves and fix these deeply integrated learned behaviors.
Consumption of porn should then be manifested as a desire for the ones we love rather than the people we know we cannot be with.
Krystal is perfect cheating wife. Those who say the dev “doesn’t know her” are wrong. Don’t forget the way she behave to Fox in the ending of Starfox Dino planet, not talking that she actually betrayed the team, joining the wolf on starfox DS. Cheating on Fox perfectly fits into the original game narrative, and him simping for her too. She actually cheated on Fox, dating with Panther in the original game. I’m surprised no one revealed this side of her earlier.
Also, I thought the VN game would be the story built around Krystal, where we corrupt her or play for Fox.
I just hope there will be a lot of comics parts about Krystal to show all the passion she desires. With long way of her getting a complete whore, with stuff like them playing marriage anniversary and she cheats in the wedding dress while he’s waiting for her to come, maybe she’s doing some domination over him as he’s simping for her, or she’s having gangbang on camera.
Fun idea would be the visit of Wolf who openly steals Krystal in front of Fox, with fucking her like a little bitch: she’s obedient and submissive, begs for cock. Before the sex, for example, seduction – wolf is speaking obscene compliments and touches her, while Fox is present and pretends not to see it.
Also, it can be Krystal meeting panther – her ex, who romantically tries to seduce her, and she allows him to do it: hating herself, but still needing his attention in comparison to always working Fox. With more kissing and passion, in contrast to corruption with Tails.
You mean to tell me that you made a whole Post just to explain why you suffered from erectile dysfunction?! Just kidding, you are very right in what you said, I agreed with everything.
Another thing, where is the new update for Please fur my Wife?! Just playing again, don’t be in a hurry and do it in your own time, I know it will be 10 / 10
I just wanted to drop by and say how much I appreciate your blog. Your writing style is both engaging and informative, making it a pleasure to read. Looking forward to your future posts!
Tails got tickle torture on his human feet by doctor eggman robots in sonic the hedgehog